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Healing the Unseen in IFS Therapy: Unattached Burdens, Past Lives, & Psychedelics

July 10 & 11, 2025

IFS level: Intermediate

We distinguish 3 Levels of knowledge and experience in IFS therapy:

  • Beginner:
    You don’t know what IFS therapy is or you are at the beginning of your IFS journey and want to know the basics of the model.
  • Intermediate:
    You already know the basics – you’ve done an introductory workshop or course and want to learn more.
  • Advanced:
    You’ve completed a number of IFS workshops and/or an IFS Institute Online Circle and/or a Level 1 training and are ready to dive deeper into the model.
About this workshop:

Robert Falconer

2-day workshop

Live + recording

8 hours in total

Experiential activities:

Experiential exercises

Guided meditations

Small group sharings

Q&A sessions

$267
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Pragmatic Spirituality in Practice

In this workshop, we’ll explore how to cultivate inner perception not as abstract ideals, but as concrete, learnable skills you can bring into your practice:

Briefly acknowledge Unattached Burdens – unlike previous workshops where they were central, this event will introduce new material not covered before.

Compare IFS concepts with cross-cultural traditions -exploring how anthropological accounts of spirit possession and the porous mind offer deep insight into non-Western models of healing.

Use the metaphor of past lives as a tool – treating reincarnation not as doctrine, but as a language for engaging what arises in the therapeutic space.

 

Integrate psychedelic experience with IFS – discovering how expanded states of consciousness open access to deep psychic material, and how IFS offers a safe and structured way to meet it.

Navigate the inner world with grounded practices – including the cultivation of interoception, imagination as perception, and relational spirituality rooted in presence and humility.

Work with attention, unknowing, and the release of constraint – developing the capacity to meet the psyche without needing to control or define what arises.

See what Bob has to say about this workshop:

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Date & Time:
10 & 11 July, 2025

The workshop will take place on Thursday and Friday and will last four hours each day.

08:00-12:00 PDT

Los Angeles

11:00-15:00 EDT

New York

16:00-20:00 BST

London

17:00-21:00 CEST

Warsaw

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Best Deal ✨ 2-Workshop Bundle:

 

  • Healing the Legacy and Cultural Burdens in IFS Therapy
  • Healing the Unseen in IFS Therapy: Unattached Burdens,
    Past Lives, & Psychedelics

 

Limited-time deal: Offer ends July 3rd

$397 $534

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Only Bob’s workshop:

 

  • Healing the Unseen in IFS Therapy: Unattached Burdens,
    Past Lives, & Psychedelics

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Unattached Burdens in IFS

We are living through a mental health emergency, and the dominant models of care are failing. While IFS has already transformed the therapeutic landscape, the revolution must go deeper.

 

Some of what emerges in the psyche is neither Part nor Self in the language of IFS. These are burdens, beings, or energies not rooted in our personal life history – what IFS now calls Unattached Burdens. The science of epigenetics, along with IFS’s work on Legacy Burdens, has cracked open the door – even for the most committed materialists – to consider that not everything we carry began with us.

 

This event will introduce new material not covered in previous Life Architect workshops, where Unattached Burdens were the central focus.


Robert Falconer 

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Past Lives as a Language for the Unseen

Past lives could be considered another metaphor system for working with clients. We will discuss the work of Ian Stevenson, MD, and Jim Tucker, MD, on reincarnation. We will also describe how to modify IFS’s Unattached Burden work to deal with these phenomena.

 

We will compare this modern psychotherapeutic material with the anthropology of spirit possession. There is a basic underlying biopsychological dynamic that appears in almost every culture we have records of, and in every period of history. This dynamic has profound effects on people’s lives, for better or worse. Historically, the metaphors most often used to describe it are those of spirit possession. Whatever metaphor system we use, this territory is worthy of study.

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Psychedelics and the Porous Mind

Psychedelics open these deep realms of the psyche. I will discuss my over fifty years of working with psychedelics and healing, and outline why and how I believe IFS revolutionizes the standard ways of working with psychedelics.

 

All of this puts us in deep waters. One important guide is the concept of the porous mind, and its opposite – the citadel model of mind. Many thinkers from different fields have written about this, and several have seen the emergence of the citadel model in the modern West as a root cause of our mental health epidemic. We will refer to the work of Owen Barfield, Charles Taylor, Barbara Ehrenreich, Daniel Siegel, Tanya Luhrmann, and Isabel Clarke – thinkers who point toward a more permeable and relational view of the mind.

 

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✨ Healing the Unseen in IFS Therapy: Unattached Burdens,
Past Lives, & Psychedelics

A 2-day online workshop with Robert Falconer.

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✨ Healing the Unseen in IFS Therapy: Unattached Burdens,
Past Lives, & Psychedelics

A 2-day online workshop with Robert Falconer.

July 10 & 11, 2025

By joining “Healing the Unseen in IFS Therapy: Unattached Burdens, Past Lives, & Psychedelics,  you’ll receive:

  • Access to live, online workshops with Bob Falconer: Participate in experiential sessions led by an experienced IFS facilitator, where you’ll learn and practice essential skills.

  • Comprehensive training materials: Receive ready-to-print resources that offer valuable tools and references for your practice.

  • Unlimited access to workshop recordings: Revisit the content anytime, allowing you to absorb the material at your own pace without time constraints.

  • Certificate of Completion: Acknowledges your commitment to professional growth and enhances your therapeutic skills.

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Meet the trainer

Robert Falconer

For the past decade or more Robert Falconer has devoted himself full-time to IFS work (Internal Family Systems Therapy). In that time he has attended all levels of IFS training offered, and has been a program assistant more than 18 times.

 

Bob has been at many workshops and events with Richard Schwartz both as assistant and participant. In addition to studying with many of the other senior IFS trainers, he also co-authored a book with Richard Schwartz entitled: Many Minds, One Self. For all of his therapeutic work, both professional and personal, Bob now uses IFS almost exclusively. Bob recently published his new book about IFS and unattached burdens – The Others Within Us: Internal Family Systems, Porous Mind, and Spirit Possession.

 

Before this Bob used and explored many forms of therapy, starting with Ericksonian hypnotherapy which he studied with Carol Erickson. He received his master’s degree and hypnotherapist certificate under her tutelage. Then he met and began studying with Jack and Helen Watkins, the creators of Ego State Therapy.

 

Before beginning his graduate work, starting in 1971, Bob was involved with the Esalen Institute where he has attended more than 120 events and workshops.

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Opinions about Bob’s previous workshop

Bob is so knowledgeable and dedicated to sharing his information. He has spent decades gathering information through personal life experiences, helping his clients, and researching so many different angles of looking at spirituality and how it relates to what is considered as severe mental illnesses. Not to mention his knowledge of effective ways to do therapy. This has given me a very helpful perspective and answers to some questions I have been searching for a long time. Such an enlightening and meaningful experience.

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Colleen O

It was informative and interesting. I like Robert Falconer’s expertise and wisdom. The topic is interesting and not discussed in the traditional IFS trainings and needs to be since we will encounter this in our practice.

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Maria Elena Gustin

The workshop was amazing. Bob was a dynamic presenter and the material was easy to engage with. The facilitation of the workshop was wonderful. Your information added to chats was very helpful and I love the callback music. I look forward to future workshops with your company. The information provided was very detailed and I find I have increased confidence working with unattached burdens.

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Allison J

Stunned by Bob’s breadth of knowledge, compassion, humility, and wisdom. Enthralled all the way through!

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Carol Harrington

It was an inspirational workshop, and I loved Bob’s humanity and open sharing as well as sharing his amazing expertise with us. Such an important area to learn about and so interesting. The tech support and course organization are the best I have experienced on any online training, well done all involved.

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Siobhan McNulty

The workshop included tons of resources and practical techniques to use with clients. I am very pleased to have learned from Bob. He is brilliant and I would love to attend other workshops he leads.

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Jenn Pagone

The most informative, essential workshop for anyone serious about IFS. You will encounter UBs sooner or later and without the skills to handle them, you are in trouble without Bob Falconer’s wisdom.

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Martin Plichta

Extremely helpful. It has been a guided tour into a strange and sometimes scary world, that I had very little knowledge of. Bob’s calm and respectful attitude towards the subject, was a great help and inspiration.

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Dorte Jallberg

Loved it! Bob is obviously amazing and the content was mind-expanding and even life-changing. The workshop itself was very efficiently run and will highly recommend you to colleagues!

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Gayle Williamson

This was one of the most amazing teachings I have ever received! Bob speaks with a remarkable blend of humility and authority on this difficult topic. I would love to study and learn more from Bob – can’t wait for his book!

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Workshop praticipant

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How to Navigate the Deep Waters

Entering deeper layers of the psyche requires more than insight. This includes cultivating interoception and inner senses, and recognizing imagination as a perceptual system – no less real than sight or hearing. We’ll explore the inner world as ontologically primary, not secondary to the external.

 

A central stance in this work is personalism – perhaps the most essential attitude in the inner world. Here, we’ll draw from the philosophy of Martin Buber and others who remind us that our inner relationships deserve the same reverence as our outer ones. We will look at modes of attention – drawing from Iain McGilchrist, Gabriel Marcel, and various forms of curiosity – as ways to relate to what arises without needing to define or control it. We’ll explore the practice of unknowing and kenosis, releasing constraint at the far edges of experience.

 

This is a form of relational spirituality, found in the writings of the Neoplatonists and in animist traditions. It also includes high-arousal spiritual states, a dimension of human experience that modern culture has largely banished but which remains vital for contact with the depth.

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Satisfaction Guarantee

If you’re not fully satisfied after attending the first day of our 2-day online workshop, simply let us know before the second session begins, and we’ll offer a full refund – no questions asked.

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Completion of IFS Level 1 Training is not required

At the same time, you need to know the fundamentals of IFS, as we don’t offer basic didactics about the model during this workshop.

 

Make sure that you:

 

  • Have completed a thorough introductory course/workshop about IFS or the IFSI Online Circle,
  • Have a desire to embody the IFS Model – deepen the knowledge of your own system, and learn tools that aid you in this process.
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How it works

Each of the workshops will be held live, on the Zoom platform.

 

You will receive the link to the Zoom meeting along with the password one day before each workshop session. There will be technical support available.

 

In 5 days after each live session, you will receive access to the recording. The recording will be available in your Life Architect Account, so you can go through it at your own pace.

 

Remember that you get unlimited access to the workshop recordings, which means you will be able to view them in a year or even in a few years.

Experiential activities

This workshop emphasizes hands-on learning through experiential activities that deepen your understanding of the material. These activities foster personal connection and collaborative learning, inviting you to actively engage in practice. Here’s what you can look forward to:

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Experiential exercises

These activities are carefully selected by the trainer specifically for this workshop and are designed to meet the unique needs of the group.

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Guided meditations

Guided meditation is an internal practice that you do with closed eyes, following the teacher’s voice. The teacher will invite you to sit back, relax, and focus on your inner world.

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Q&A sessions

Q&A sessions are a chance to ask anything on your mind about the workshop topic. It’s a relaxed and open space to learn, connect, and get the clarity you need.

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Alexia Rothman

Ph.D., Certified IFS Therapist and IFS Speaker/Educator

Robert Falconer is a highly experienced IFS practitioner and teacher who has spent years focusing his deep spiritual practice and profound intellect on work with Unattached Burdens and Guides. He brings scholarly knowledge from extensive study, including readings and personal discussions with practitioners of diverse religious and spiritual traditions, that spans multiple cultures and time periods. His course provides an opportunity for therapists and practitioners interested in this realm of experience to benefit from the insights and in-session experience he has gained to learn to effectively work with these phenomena should they encounter them in their personal or professional work.

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Rachel Rivers

Minister, teacher and counselor

As a pastoral councilor and minister i have been working at the boundary of psychology and religion for more than 30 years. Bob is an excellent guide in this terrain to use religious language, he is comfortable working with both demons and angels. His class on unattached burdens and guides was packed with information and deep understanding.

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Derek P Scott

Founder and CEO, IFSCA

Bob Falconer is a scholar as well as a gifted and engaging teacher. His expertise in the field of unattached burdens is unmatched as he brings a vast theoretical and anthropological framework to the practical business of addressing these phenomenon in the therapeutic encounter.

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Paul Ginter

Ed.D, Co-founder of the Center for Psychotherapy and Wellness

I have had the good fortune of Bob Falconer serving as a program assistant in IFS trainings for many years. Bob’s deep understanding of the Model, along with his clear and wise teaching, have made him an invaluable presence. When it comes to unattached burdens, Bob is one of the very best clinicians and perhaps the foremost researcher we have.

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✨ Healing the Unseen in IFS Therapy: Unattached Burdens,
Past Lives, & Psychedelics

A 2-day online workshop with Robert Falconer.

healing-the-unseen-ifs-therapy-workshop-bob-falconer-cover_vert

✨ Healing the Unseen in IFS Therapy: Unattached Burdens,
Past Lives, & Psychedelics

A 2-day online workshop with Robert Falconer.

July 10 & 11, 2025

By joining “Healing the Unseen in IFS Therapy: Unattached Burdens, Past Lives, & Psychedelics,  you’ll receive:

  • Access to live, online workshops with Bob Falconer: Participate in experiential sessions led by an experienced IFS facilitator, where you’ll learn and practice essential skills.

  • Comprehensive training materials: Receive ready-to-print resources that offer valuable tools and references for your practice.

  • Unlimited access to workshop recordings: Revisit the content anytime, allowing you to absorb the material at your own pace without time constraints.

  • Certificate of Completion: Acknowledges your commitment to professional growth and enhances your therapeutic skills.

$267
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